Disband Of…Acquaintances?
In the 9 month period I was in The Rosenbergs, we toured the US twice, England twice, and Canada. We would pack up and leave for a month, come home and take a few weeks off, and do it all over again on our own dime. We weren't relying on anyone but ourselves. The tours were great. It was exciting to travel and play music. Some shows were packed, some we were playing to crickets! Either way, I was doing it, and meeting people from different parts of the world and doing what I loved to do. We were in Spin Magazine, Time Out, Billboard, etc. We opened for Duran Duran at Jones Beach, and other shows with numerous pop acts. England was the highlight and I've been dying to get back there ever since! There really is respect for all types of music there.
One thing that was an adjustment for me was that all the bands I had been in had a brotherhood bond. This one did not. This was a different situation entirely. I had been warned by someone before joining to be careful of the Rosenbergs because of 'this and that'. I had to judge for myself though.
As time went on I realized that the singer was writing all the songs and had no intention of letting anyone else do so. I viewed it as a Beatles evolution with the music. It did not happen this way. The singer started bringing sugarcoated fluff pop tunes to the table, which didn't do anything for me.
We released a 45 (yes a 45!) of a song, which was a parody on Puff Daddy. Though it was essentially a joke, I could sense that this was the direction the band was heading. I actually played drums on this track being as we all switched instruments. The B-side was a cover of "BBC", from the first Austin Powers soundtrack which I sang lead on and played guitar. After a very unprofessional experience recording with the band in the studio for my first time, I started thinking that it was time to move on. Touring is incredible, but a musician needs to write and create in addition to performing. I gave my notice, finished the gigs that were booked, and in December of '99, I took my leave. To say there were ill feelings on the Rosenbergs end would be an understatement. We played Canada one last time on my birthday, and needless to say, all the negative things I had heard about the band from day one were true. I won't get into it as it is now all water under the bridge, but the attitude was "you're either with us or against us."
Afterward I was slammed in interviews and different types of press (which I had seen them do before to previous guitar players). I do have to say that my absolute FAVORITE quote about me leaving was this: "When it came time for us to do our next record, the one we're working on now, our guitar player said he didn't like the music and having acquired a bit of an ego from all the attention we were getting said he was off to make a 'Rush meets Kansas' album…oy vey…prog rock still lives and we're one [member] down".
"Awesome!" I thought. And at that moment I knew I made the right decision. They always had a way of twisting words around like they were so persecuted when in reality they were just using and stepping on anyone they could to try and get ahead. Oh well, it's a sleazy business…but hey, Prog rock still lives!